The Crazy Wilkes Clan!!

Halloween...

2010-11-02T13:30:00.002-06:00

HALLOWEEN 2010...

Taylor decided to be a crayola crayon with her best friends from our neighborhood. Madison was all dressed up to be Hannah Montana --- had the cute outfit with the black boots, and the awesome wig --- but she took the wig off and wouldn't wear it the whole night.... Stubborn girl.

Alexa, Peyton, Taylor and Madison

Madison & Peyton

Best friend Cousins --- Lexi and Taylor

Taylor with her best friends, Grace, Tiani, Maya

The rest of the best friends, Megan and Madison.. And of course, Tiani's little brother, Sam..

I'm getting old --- ugh....

2010-10-11T01:43:00.012-06:00

I can't believe I've been graduated from High School for 25 years! That's got to be wrong, because #1--- we definitely don't look that old if you ask me, and #2 -- it seems like just yesterday that I was in high school, and now I have two boys that have graduated from high school. Where has the time gone?

I went to my 25 year class reunion this last weekend and since a few best buddies from high school were going without husbands, we all had a fun girls weekend! I really missed Julie Smith, who was like my conjoined twin in high school. I was so excited that my other best friends from high school, Michele Gibson and Anne Dickson were able to go with me, and my childhood neighbor, Vicki Southern. We had a blast and it was just like old times.

Madison's baptism...

2010-09-04T23:25:00.001-06:00

Today Madison was baptized. It was such a special day and she was so excited that her Uncle Len was able to baptize her. I'm so proud of Madison for her decision to be baptized. She has such a sweetness and purity to her soul and I'm proud of the beautiful person that she is. She amazes me each day, even with her feisty little personality, how caring and sensitive she is and how much she loves and adores her family. There is no better moment as a mother to look at your children and see who they are becoming. We love you Maddie!

Madison and her Uncle Len

Madison and her best friend Emma

Madison and Taylor with their Grandma Verna

My baby is growing up...

2010-08-28T23:27:00.001-06:00

Today was Madison's Birthday party.. She turned 8 years old. I can't believe my baby is growing up so fast. She wanted a swimming party with her friends again as usual. She's my little fish, she could live in the water. Her and her friends had a blast, and she feels so important when she has all of her special friends around her and all of the attention is on her!

I feel so blessed that I was given the absolute privilege of being Madison's mother. I just love her to pieces and she's such a sweet, caring, and funny young lady and she's growing up to be a beautiful person, inside and out.

When we got home, Maddie decided she wanted to send her birthday balloons up to heaven to her grandpas that have passed on. Her Grandpa Lawrence, Grandpa Tom and Grandpa Norm. It was very important to her to send a message to them, so she wrote on her balloons and let them go, so they would get to her special grandpa's and so that they would know it was her birthday.

First day of school...

2010-08-16T21:58:00.002-06:00

Today was the first day of school. I can't believe how fast my girls are growing up. Taylor is 11 yrs. old and in 6th grade, and Madison is turning 8 next week and is in 2nd grade. I am so proud of these girls, they bring me so much joy. As they get older, it's so much fun to be able to share more with them, and I realize more and more how much like me they are -- (I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing). They have grown into beautiful souls and are so kind and caring for others. I couldn't be prouder of them, and am so blessed to be their mother.

Madison & Taylor

Madison

Taylor

Madison, Taylor and Taylor's friend, Tiani

Madison & her friend, Emma

Taylor with her best friends, Tiani, Maya & Grace

Minnesota Trip...

2010-08-15T23:03:00.001-06:00

We went to Minnesota from July 31st - Aug 8th. My mother in law, Barb and her awesome guy, Orris, were married on Saturday, August 7th. We LOVE Orris, and we are so happy for her that she met someone who is so kind and loving to her and her family. The girls were flower girls in the wedding and they had so much fun hanging out with their cousins Parker and Natalie, and their new relatives also. It was fun to spend this time with family, I always love being around Russ's mom, she's such a great person. It was great to spend time with his sisters, Karen and Lisa also. We don't get to see everyone that often, so we loved it.
Here's some pictures from the week of fun....

Teton Springs 2010...

2010-07-20T00:11:00.002-06:00

This year instead of going to AZ where everyone in my family normally meet up, we all met in Teton Springs from July 11 to 17th. Lori and Len have a place there, and we thought it would be fun if we all met there. Lori & Len's family, Heather & Clemente's family, Our family, Melissa, and my Mom. The only two we were missing was Melissa's daughter, Nicole, and my son, Rocky. We missed them both. It was a great time. We went to Yellowstone Park, Jackson Hole, swam at the clubhouse, fished, golfed, played tennis, went to the gym, and visited and laughed late every night.. What a blast we had, and the kids all had fun. I'm glad my family is so close and that all the kids get to grow up extremely close with all of their cousins. Thanks everyone for a memoriable week!!!! xoxo

Chad's Graduation!!!

2010-06-04T01:47:00.001-06:00

Alta High School Class of 2010.....

Wow!! I can't believe my boy has graduated from high school! The fact that I have two boys graduated from high school just blows my mind. During Chad's ceremony today, it brought a tear to my eyes, just thinking back on how fast the last 19 years of his life have flown by. Just seems like yesterday he was a innocent little boy playing with legos and hotwheels. Now, he has his whole life ahead of him and he has so much to look forward to. He's a smart young man, kind hearted, and has alot to offer to the world. He has a goal of entering into the military, so is very shortly here taking the tests required to get that started.

We're very proud of Chad and the fact that through his high school years he's been on the honor roll each semester with an awesome grade point average. He's been responsible with a job that he's had for the past two years through high school. We feel he has a great foundation for his future. Chad we love you immensely and are SO VERY PROUD OF YOU!

Chad and his cousin Colten

Taylor's Piano Recital...

2010-05-28T01:15:00.005-06:00

Taylor had a piano recital in May. It was the last recital with her teacher Judy. Judy is not going to be teaching anymore, so it was a bit sad. Taylor did really good. I know she could be REALLY good at piano, but she doesn't love to practice (sounds like me when I was a kid)....

She's more interested in playing tennis and sports than piano, but we were very proud of her.. I hope she keeps her love of piano, because it is a beautiful gift.

Taylor also was in the same piano class as her friends, Maya and Grace...

Sisters Weekend...

2010-02-25T21:20:00.002-07:00

My sister, Lori and I flew to Virginia February 17th - 21st to hang out with our other two sisters, Heather and Melissa for a long weekend. It was really good to see my sisters. We had had this trip planned for quite a few weeks, and it just so happened that Russ had to fly to Minnesota to spend some of the last few days of his dad's life by his side, along with his sisters. He took Maddie and Taylor with him. Thank you Russ for your huge heart, not only for loving your father unconditionally and being there for him through all of this and showing a great example to your children, but for having a huge heart in allowing me to still have my sisters weekend and my much needed time off. I hesitated on going on my trip, with his father in this condition, but Russ insisted I not cancel my trip, and took the girls with him. He went through a hard time while he was there seeing his father in his last few days, and because of that, I hurt for him. I still managed to have fun with my sisters, but my thoughts were constantly with my girls and Russ, and between constant phone calls and texting, I'm glad I could still be a support to him during this time. I have awesome and understanding sisters, who knew that week was hard for me being away from my family. But we did have a fun time just spending time together. I'm very happy for the relationship I have with my sisters, I realize that not everyone has that situation, but I cherish my sisters...

We'll miss you Norm...

2010-02-23T18:31:00.002-07:00

Norman Ray Wilkes

Sept. 16, 1939 - Feb. 22, 2010

After a battle with cancer over the past 3 months or so, Russ's dad, Norm Wilkes, passed away last night. Norm was a great guy. Very funny with a great sense of humor. I only spent a little bit of time with him over the 15 years that I've been a part of Russ's life, but the one thing I do know, he loved his three children and his grandchildren greatly. He had a soft place in his heart for all of the grandkids -- he loved playing with them, and dancing with them. He didnt get the name "Stormin' Norman" from nowhere. That described him to the T.

I'm really glad that he had his last few days in this world with the people he loved the most around him. His wife Joanne, and his three kids, Russ, Lisa, and Karen -- I'm happy they all were able to spend this special time with him before he left this world. They were able to express to him their love, and he also was still able to communicate enough to tell each of his kids how much he loved them. I know that's something they'll always have to hold on to.

He will be greatly missed. We love you Norm! This is not 'good-bye', for I'm comforted to know because of my beliefs, that we will all see each other again really soon. He is in a great place right now, and without any pain. Until tomorrow Norm..... XOXO

Delta Airlines

2009-11-27T14:08:00.004-07:00

After years of being out of the airline industry, I've decided to enter it again. I started my 5 weeks of training on Oct. 12th, and this week just finished my 2 additional weeks of OTJ training, and now an official employee of Delta Airlines. Even though this industry is not about making a good income, I really decided that I really missed all the benefits. We really have missed the airline benefits since we moved to Utah and left the airline industry after a combined 17 years of working at America West Airlines when we lived in Arizona. For that, we are excited, to be able to take the kids all around the world, and fly to visit family and friends whenever we want to... For that, we are excited.
Hope to see you all soon!

girl ask boy dance...

2009-11-10T22:40:00.002-07:00

Chad was invited to a girl's choice dance last night by his friend, Kayla, who goes to Jordan High School, and they had so much fun. I can't believe he's a senior in high school and going to graduate this year. He's such a great kid and I just love him so much.

Halloween...

2009-10-31T22:15:00.001-06:00

The girls had alot of fun this year. Taylor was invited to a few different Halloween parties and dressed up as a witch for those. But on Halloween night, she was a hobo and Maddie was a cute little puppy...

First snow....

2009-10-25T22:20:00.001-06:00

We had our first snow a few days ago (ugh.....) Even though it's not my favorite time of the year, the kids love it. This is what they (mostly Maddie) had fun with on the first snowfall day of the year....

Happy 7th Birthday my little Maddie.....

2009-08-30T23:43:00.006-06:00

Madison had her birthday party yesterday and she wanted to go swimming like her big sister did for her birthday. So she decided to have her party at the Rec Center where the kids could all swim and go down waterslides. They had so much fun, and I just love seeing my baby have so many good friends she enjoys being around, and seeing her grow up into a beautiful being..... I just love her to pieces.

I love love love my kids....

2009-08-30T18:20:00.006-06:00

I love love love my kids. They are all so sweet and adorable... I love them all and can't get enough of them. Just sayin'..........

End of the Summer...

2009-08-12T14:23:00.018-06:00

It's been a very busy summer and haven't posted anything in a while. This summer was full of insane craziness, but tons of fun. We had a blast, but we're looking forward to school starting (the girls start Monday the 17th, and Chad starts Wed. the 26th). Here are a few pictures from our Arizona trip we took from July 23 - Aug 5th

My sisters.... Lori, Heather, Melissa and Me

Russ & Me

Rocky, Russ, Me, Chad, Madison and Taylor

All the cousins --- Rocky, Nicole, Colten, Chad, Mitchell, Derek, Alexa, Taylor Lauryn, Madison & Eryka.....

My mom

Lori & Len's family ---- Colten, Lori, Len, Michell, and Alexa

Melissa & Nicole

Heather & Clemente -- Derek, Lauryn & Eryka

The younger cousins --- Lauryn, Eryka, Madison, Alexa, Derek, and Taylor

The older cousins --- Colten, Nicole and Chad (we're missing Rocky and Mitchell in this picture)

Chad with Roxy ----- can't forget her..

Me with Heather and Melissa (missing Lori -- she had already gone back to Utah) at Native New York...

Before our family got there --- swimming in my mom's backyard.

Taylor with Alexa and Derek (this is a tradition picture we always take with these three sitting against the closet door in my mom's hallway --- we started taking this picture when these kids could barely sit up. I'll post them all sometime soon)

Last Day of School...

2009-07-02T22:38:00.001-06:00

Today was Taylor & Madison's last day of school. We have alot of fun things planned for the summer so we are so excited. Chad's last day was June 4th, so he's had a month head start. I remember when I was a kid, on the last day of school it ws so cool to be able to say I was in the grade for the next school year. So Maddie is very excited to say she's in 1st grade now, and Taylor in 5th grade, and of course Chad a senior in high school (now that's INDEPENDENCE!) I love my kids, they're so fun and cute....

My new favorite thing...

2009-06-19T13:50:00.003-06:00

OK ---- This is my new favorite thing.... I admit, I don't cook dinner nearly as much as I should. My husband is always wanting me to cook more, and sometimes with our crazy life, it's hard having something ready for dinner every night. So a girlfriend that lives in my neighborhood that works full time told me about this place. It used to be called 'My Girlfriend's Kitchen', part of a franchise. Now the franchise is no more, so they're independent, located in South Jordan. They have brunch selections, easy oven meals, crockpot meals, stovetop meals, grilled entrees, kids meals, deserts, sides, soups. They prepare them at their store and you just take them home and put them in your freezer, put them in the fridge a day or two before you want to use them, and put them in the oven (or grill or stovetop or crockpot depending on the meal). It's very simple, you just go online to the link I have listed below. You place your order (they have new meals every month), you either pick them up from their store on the date selected online, or schedule for them to deliver them to you. So easy, very yummy dinner selections and inexpensive.

http://dinnermarket.com/

Sad but very thankful for God's watching eye ...

2009-06-16T18:02:00.012-06:00

This has been a very tramatic and difficult week for alot of incredible people. Some of our neighbors that live a few doors down the street from us, and also who happen to be really good friends of ours, had their house burn down this last week. It was last Thursday night, at about 8:45 p.m. when we all saw the smoke, and then watched in horror as the whole house went up in flames so quickly. The firefighters worked all night until about 2:30 a.m. and I'm very thankful that Tiani was able to get out of the house, and that Tiffani and her 1-1/2 year old son, Samuel were out of town in St. George for a few days, and Clark wasn't home, he was on his way home from work. I'm very sad for them that they lost their little Dog, Lizzy, who will be greatly missed, she lost her life in the fire. I want Clark & Tiffani to know how much we love them and are here for them every step of the way in recovering from their loss. And little Tiani, who is one of Taylor's best friends, I want her to know that our home is her home, she's been staying over here alot and we enjoy having her and being there for her. Also it has been amazing to see our whole neighborhood come together and the members of our church rallying to help this whole last week. There's alot of good people in this world.

WE LOVE YOU GUYS!

Here's a one of the many news clips from the sad event.
http://www.ksl.com/?nid=148&sid=6793356

June birthdays...

2009-06-10T17:37:00.013-06:00

It's been a crazy month so far so I forgot to mention a few birthdays...

June 4th was my niece Natalie's birthday, she turned 10.

June 8th was one of my best girlie's birthdays ---- Lisa

June 17th is another one of my best girlie's birthdays --- Nikki

And June 17th is also Grandpa Delmer's birthday (Russ's grandpa)

My birthday was also in June (10th), but I am not going to put my picture in here because I can't find any cute ones ---- haha! I guess since it's my blog I can do that! Anyways, I love all these guys and wish them the best birthdays ever!

Happy Birthday Colten...

2009-05-26T22:20:00.003-06:00

May 21st was my nephew, Colten's, birthday. We went over and celebrated his birthday on Sunday afternoon. He turned 17 and I can't believe how fast time has flown. I remember him and Chad playing together when they were very young. Now they go to high school together. Crazy....

We love you Colt ---- Have a great year this year!

Lemonade stand...

2009-05-23T13:17:00.005-06:00

Taylor and two of her friends, Megan and Madison, had a lemonade stand today. They actually got everything together themselves, made the sign on Taylor's whiteboard, made the lemonade, set up the table and had music playing. They were successful with their stand, and had a blast! Cute little girls.

i think they got it right...

2009-05-13T22:53:00.003-06:00

At the beginning of the season I was a big Danny Gokey fan, and I still like him alot. But the last few weeks I've really loved Kris. And I figured Adam would be in the final two. So I have to say ---- I love how tonight turned out!

Mother's Day ...

2009-05-10T20:54:00.012-06:00

Happy Mother's Day to my Mom, my Mother-in-law, and my amazing sisters, sister-in-law's and friends who are mothers. We have the toughest job in the world being moms, but the most rewarding. I love my children more than anything in the world, they are incredible, and they bring me joy every day, so I'm honored to be their mother.

My mom is in Arizona, so I couldn't see her today, but I love her, and appreciate the mother she is to me and my sisters....

And my mother-in-law is in Minnesota, so I couldn't see her either, but I want her to know how much I love and appreciate her for being the wonderful mother she is to my husband, and to me also.

My amazing husband and children allowed me to sleep in today (which by the way I love----- sleep is the best!)...

Then they made me this.....

And they gave me this bracelet/watch ---- I LOVE IT! And I love them!

And then we spent the afternoon at my sister Lori's house, and enjoyed family all day. Then I received a call from my son, Rocky wishing me a happy Mother's Day and telling me how much he loves and appreciates me. He sent me a certificate for a massage. My kids know what I like! Today was a perfect day!

HAVE A GREAT DAY TO EVERYONE!

Happy Birthday Nicole...

2009-05-04T11:06:00.004-06:00

It's been a crazy last few weeks, so I'm just now getting around to making this post on my cute niece, Nicole's 20th birthday on April 18th. HAPPY BIRTHDAY NICOLE --- we love you. We have spent so much time with Coco her whole life and love her dearly. It's only been the past 4 years since we've lived in Utah that we haven't seen her as much, only maybe two or three times a year. My kids have spent so much time with her their whole lives, (especially Rocky and Chad)they basically thought of her as their sister... We were lucky enough to spend alot of time with her when we were just in Arizona last week when the girls were off track from school. We hope you have a great year this year Nicole!!!

lost in the bushes...

2009-04-21T21:56:00.000-06:00

I am very proud of Taylor and two of her friends, Grace and Maya, for having such caring and nurturing souls. Yesterday, they were playing outside and they love playing in our backyard, where we live backed against a hill. Taylor and a few of her friends have made a little clubhouse up on the hill and they always play up there. They were playing and heard a very faint 'meow' behind some shrubs. They checked behind the shrubs and found a little kitty, that looked like he had been born within the last few days. His eyes were still shut, and he couldn't really walk. The mommy cat was no where to be found, and the girls felt if the kitty stayed out there alone, he would die. They brought him down to the house, and then over to Grace & Maya's house for a bit, where Noriane called a few animal shelters to see if they would take him. We couldn't find anyone to take him that late, since it was already after 5:00 p.m. so I took the girls to Petco and bought a little bottle and some kitty formula and we thought if we took care of him overnight that we could find somewhere that could take care of him today. I never thought taking care of a newborn kitty would be more work than a baby. I slept downstairs on the couch so I could sleep right next to the little bed we made for him, and could hear him when he needed to eat. I woke up every 2-3 hours to feed him a few drops of his formula. Alot of work, but very very cute.
I think this was a great experience for these girls, who have so much caring for all these little animals they seem to keep finding. Oh.. one more thing.... I forgot to say what they named him..... 'Jasper' (of course --- since he is a black kitty, and these little girls take after their Moms, they are diehard vampire fans also)

Happy Birthday Derek...

2009-04-14T23:58:00.000-06:00

Today is my nephew, Derek's birthday. He turned 10 years old. He is the smartest, sweetest boy and I just love him to pieces. He lives in Virginia, so I only get to see him once a year. Derek --- we love you and can't wait to see you in July! Have the best birthday ever ---- hitting double digits is a big deal!

we love you dad...

2009-04-12T16:05:00.006-06:00

April 12, 1943 ----

I think about my dad every day, but today is his birthday. Ironically enough, Easter also fell on April 12th this year. Thinking about the true meaning of Easter, the celebration of the Resurrection of Christ, and the remembrance of the Atonement that He suffered for us that allows us all the promise of resurrection also. That means so much to me because I KNOW I will see my dad and be able to embrace him again. I LOVE YOU DAD and I miss you each and every day.

Happy Easter...

2009-04-12T15:49:00.002-06:00

from our family to yours....

school wax museum...

2009-04-07T18:22:00.012-06:00

Today Taylor's school held a Wax Museum that the 4th graders participate in each year in their study of Utah History. They each choose a person who is or was famous in Utah, and write a research paper, oral report, then they get to participate in the wax museum. It was so cool to see all the 4th graders dress up as the person they chose, and I can't believe for 45 minutes they all stayed still like they were statues.

Taylor was Georgie White (Not being from Utah, I had no idea who she was before she did this project)

We also took a few pictures of Taylor's good friends -- Grace, Tiani, Maya, Macy and Abby --- they all looked so cute..

you've got to be kidding me...

2009-03-29T22:04:00.007-06:00

Dear Winter,
I definitely need to express how I'm feeling right now....
There is a time and a place for you... I looked at my calender the other day, and it said it was spring, so I don't want to hurt your feelings, but will you please go away, I think we've all had enough of you. Spring keeps trying to pop his head out, but he seems to be pretty shy. So will you please not be so overbearing, and take your leave? We definitely will be looking forward to seeing you again next year, but we really want to play outside, barbeque, go on bike rides and swim. We do think you're beautiful, but we can wait until the appropriate time to see you again in 7 or 8 more months. Thank you!

Junior prom...

2009-03-27T22:55:00.011-06:00

Tonight was Junior Prom. Well, Alta High had theirs last week, but since Chad and his friends were all going to Prom with a bunch of their close friends from Jordan High, they all decided to go to Jordan's prom. They had a blast. The day started at 10:00 in the morning, where they picked their dates up for breakfast, then went to have a fun day, then they all went home, changed and got ready. They picked their dates up again and met in the Jordan parking lot at 5:00 to meet the Limo that all 16 of them were taking that night, and off to dinner and the dance, and 'chillin' after (in their words). I was so excited for them. They all looked so nice and they're all a great bunch of kids.

Chad and Ling

Chad's cousin (and good friend) Colten, and his date, Jessica

Jessica & Ling

The Alta boys, Casey, Hunter, Colten and Chad with their dates

The whole bunch of 16

Taylor's swimming birthday party...

2009-03-20T23:14:00.001-06:00

This year Taylor wanted her birthday party to be a swimming party again. There's nothing like having 17 crazy 9 & 10 year olds together in the same space! They had a blast!

Happy St. Patricks Day!

2009-03-17T23:09:00.001-06:00

HAPPY ST. PATRICKS DAY! Not only is today Taylor's birthday, but she was born on St. Patricks Day....... We love this day. Have a great day!

Happy 10th Birthday Taylor!

2009-03-17T15:21:00.004-06:00

Today is Taylor's birthday. I can't believe she's 10 years old. She is growing into a beautiful girl, and I'm so proud of the person she is. She is wise beyond her years, and I want her to know how thankful I am every day for the opportunity to be her mother. I LOVE YOU TAY-TAY!

I feel like this some days...

2009-03-12T23:01:00.002-06:00

I have to say I relate to this. I feel like this somedays...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=txqiwrbYGrs

Madison and her little 'girls'

2009-03-08T22:23:00.004-06:00

Madison wanted to watch Powerpuff Girls the other day while I was getting ready for the day. After I finished getting ready, I came downstairs to find this.....

Her 'girls' are eating on their own plates while watching their show on TV

Then they were tired and needed a nap as you can see.

She is the most adorable, creative little girl, and she made sure her 'girls' as she calls them, were well taken care of. I just love her!!

just my opinion...

2009-02-26T09:28:00.010-07:00

For those of you who are American Idol fans like my family is....

There are two contestants that i can't stand and who I don't even know how they got through the auditions.

Annoying contestant #1 ----- Tatiana ---- Her voice isn't the worst, but she is soooooo annoying. If you've watched, you know what I mean. I'm so glad she's gone.

Annoying contestant #2 --- Nick (aka Norman Gentle). It's a joke...

But, on the brighter side of things----- I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE these two the best so far.....

Alexis Grace is my favorite girl so far.

And Danny Gokey is my favorite guy...
What do you think??? Who are your favorites?

Happy Birthday Heather....

2009-02-22T23:11:00.001-07:00

Today is my youngest sister, Heather's birthday. I don't get to see her but once a year, because her and her family live in Virginia, but we talk on the phone alot, and I'm really glad we are so close. I love you tons Heather and hope you have the best day ever!!!

Ready for school to start again...

2009-02-21T20:51:00.018-07:00

In our school district, some of the elementary schools are on year round school. So instead of having a 3 month summer break, they only get like 6 weeks off, then a few times throughout the year, they have extended breaks. Well, my girls were off track for 3-1/2 weeks, from the end of January until now (they go back to school on Monday). They have had alot of fun, but they are so ready to go back to school.

Here's just a few of the fun things they got to do:

I took the girls to Arizona for a week and we stayed with their Grandma Verna for a few days.

While in Arizona, they loved visiting with their brother, Rocky, for his 21st birthday.

They had so much fun staying a few days at their Aunt Melissa's house and spending time with her and their cousin, Nicole, and of course, Roxy the dog.

Taylor and Madison loved spending time with good friends. Taylor and Hannah were best friends when we lived in Arizona.

Madison, Tatum, Hannah and Taylor

Fun overnight with the girls.

Taylor got to fly to Florida with her dad, when he was going to the Daytona 500. She was able to spend time with her cousins Parker and Natalie, Grandma Barb, Aunt Karen, Aunt Lisa and Uncle John. They were able to get a bit of sight seeing in.

Taylor with Natalie and Parker at St. Augustine

Taylor visiting Ripley's Believe it or Not - standing next to a wax tourist.

Along with the fun trips, they went on a few fun field trips with their friends, saw a few movies, played with friends all day long, slept in, went to birthday parties, we made brownies, had picnics with friends ------ Can I just say one thing? I need a break ---- I'm exhausted!!!! But we had a blast, and I will miss all of the fun days with the girls, and spending so much time with them.

Happy heart day...

2009-02-14T20:48:00.005-07:00

Today is not only Valentines Day, but it's the day Russ & I were married 11 years ago. We picked this day to be married because we thought this would be a very special day forever to celebrate our anniversary on. The song that's playing by Martina McBride was the song we had chosen to be sung at our wedding. The day couldn't have been more perfect in every way.

I love you Russ! HAPPY ANNIVERSARY! You are a wonderful husband and father, and I am thankful every day to have you in my life..

love love love my new hair color...

2009-02-13T16:23:00.002-07:00

OK - I took this picture of myself, because my little photographer daughter, Taylor, is out of town. I woke up this morning at 4:00 a.m. to take Russ and Taylor to the airport. Russ was planning on going to Florida with his family to go to the NASCAR races - Daytona 500. He's gone the past few years, and at the last minute, his sister called and said he should bring Taylor, because her cousin, Natalie, who is the same age, would be there also. So lucky Taylor, she got to go too. Of course the kids and a few adults aren't attending the 500, so they stay at the condo, which is on the beach, and hang out, maybe swim in the heated pool, and will also go to Disney World on Saturday.

Anyways, back to my color. I missed my hair appointment while I was in Arizona a few weeks ago, and my hairdresser couldn't get me in for another month. You all know how it goes --- when you can't wait, you can't wait. So I had someone come to my house, and she did my hair. I was a bit nervous.... Here is the outcome...... I love the cut and color...

Feelings of frustration, then thankfulness...

2009-02-05T19:59:00.001-07:00

Last month at this time, when I got home from work one evening, I can't even explain the feelings I had. But to give you a little bit of an idea, they were feelings of confusion, loss, betrayal, shock, abandonment, deception, dishonesty, disloyalty, let down, hurt, blind sided, disappointed, surprised----- I could go on and on...

I had worked at my current job for 3 years, and had been a very loyal, trusted, responsible, hard working, employee, and have really felt like my boss depended on me and respected me and my work. Of course, the real estate market has slowed down quite a bit over the past year, and as alot of real estate companies, and other companies in this line of work have had to do recently, we'd had to lay a few staff people off recently, and it had been hard to see. However, my boss had never made me feel like I was in jeopardy of losing my job at all. So on a Monday, right after we got back from the new years holiday, after the day was over and I was getting ready to leave, he walked into my office and told me he had to do a few more cutbacks, and unfortunately this time it involved my position. He said it was purely financial because, me being the Operations Manager, he could eliminate my income, and split all my duties between two people that made less. I could tell when he was in my office how hard it was for him to do this, but I still felt completely blindsided... To think that even when people asked me over the past year about my job, and I would say that I could never leave there because I love my job so much, and I could never do that to my boss... haha! So on this day, I felt the loyalty only went one way.

Fast forward to today --- I have alot more comfort and calmness. First of all, I know that everything happens for a reason, and I am in the best place now.. Able to spend more time with my children and husband at home, have more time to work on myself, have more time to get things done at home, and still able to do some work from home. I believe now more than ever, that things don't just 'happen', It all works out how it's supposed to and with a purpose.

I LOVE MY FAMILY!!!!!!

Happy Birthday Rocky!

2009-01-28T16:23:00.006-07:00

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ROCKY!

I CAN'T believe my firstborn child is turning 21 years old today! First of all it is hard to believe I'm old enough to have a child that is 21 years old, but mostly it's just crazy how fast time has flown by -- it seems like just yesterday I was holding him in my arms rocking him to sleep.

I want you to know Rocky, that I love you so much. You have always been the sweetest, kindest, smartest individual, and I miss you not living close to me. But I know you've grown alot the past few years, and learned alot. I am proud of the man you have grown into! WE LOVE YOU!

Birth - Jan 28, 1988

11 weeks old

2 years old

2-1/2 years old

3-1/2 years old

9 years old

Rocky with his great grandma

9 years old

13 years old

18 years old

Happy Birthday to Sparkle and Brandy ...

2009-01-25T21:06:00.002-07:00

Maddie and Taylor are so stinkin cute... I think I have two of the most creative, cute, fun girls I could ever ask for. I was upstairs on the computer tonight trying to get my I-pod loaded with songs for our trip, when Madison came in to where I was, and handed me an envelope that just said 'MOM' on the outside of it. She said, "Open this, but wait until I go in the other room". So, ok... I kept working on my I-pod and forgot about the envelope for a minute. She came back in the room about 10 minutes later, and asked me if I had opened it yet. Horrible me, I had forgotten about it -- so again, she told me to open it when she went out. I then opened the envelope and there was a barbie invitation, and here is what it said...

Now, you have to realize that Sparkle and Brandy are two of their precious little children. Between Maddie and Taylor, they have about 15 or 20 Webkinz stuffed animals, and these two happen to have birthdays this month. Now, anyone who has children who have Webkinz know that they know each of their names, their birthdays, the things they like and dislike, what they like to eat, etc. etc... Taylor and her friends periodically let their Webkinz spend the night with each other. A few times, Taylor has come home with 3 or 4 new ones, just for the night. And 3 or 4 of her most precious kids has gone to spend the night at one of her friend's houses. Before the exchange, they make sure they have given detailed instructions to each other on how they like to sleep, covers over their heads or not, if they like the lights on, if they have a certain story they like read to them, or a certain bedtime song sung to them.

Considering how well they take care of their Webkinz, it didn't surprise me that they would plan something like this for their special day. I knocked on their door to have Taylor open the door, and there was a banner strung from the door to the wall. They had a little ribbon cutting ceremony before I entered. I walked in the room to find barbie cups on the little table in the corner, with crackers, and Sparkle and Brandy sitting on the table. There were little gifts for Sparkle and Brandy in barbie gift bags neatly lined up on the floor. They had a few little games planned --- and a raffle drawing to win prizes.

I have to say, it was quite cute. I hope my little girls don't grow up to quickly. I want to keep them just as they are!

I wonder who's birthday is next month.... Stay tuned!

My exciting life...

2009-01-15T22:01:00.000-07:00

OK ----- my life is so exciting -----

I just wanted everyone to know.......

that I LOVE Kara the new judge...

Now, we are back on with our obsession for the next few months...

Goodbye 2008 --- Hello 2009...

2009-01-03T22:03:00.003-07:00

I have to say I'm not going to miss 2008. But, I'm so looking forward to 2009. So I find it very easy to say 'Goodbye 2008' -----
I am very excited for 2009 for quite a few reasons, which I won't bore you with. Everyone has their personal New Years resolutions, and I am excited for mine. I really have a list of about 100 things, but here are just a few of the things that I WILL do (I won't say 'hope' because I hate that word, what does hope mean anyways? You hope you'll accomplish it, which means you'll 'try' --- I'm not going to just 'try' or 'hope' --- I WILL do these):

* Become a better "ME" --- be a bit more selfish when it comes to making time for myself, treating myself to more things I deserve..
* Not to worry about the little things, let things slide and enjoy everything a little more..
* Connect with old friends, and make time to enjoy those relationships
* Write in my journal
* Have a 'date' night with my husband once a week
* Excercise more --- take more time for myself
* Meditate more, relaxation
* Visit my son Rocky more in Arizona
* Have a blast with my kids--- do fun things..
* Take an incredible trip with my husband..
* Another incredible fun trip with husband & kids...

Sounds like a fun year huh?
Well, that's just a few of the things --- ok, this year is all about ME (is that too selfish?) That's fine, call it being selfish or a midlife crisis, whatever... I don't care. I think it's about dang time --- I deserve it!

Merry Christmas to all...

2008-12-29T22:39:00.012-07:00

We had a wonderful Christmas this year. We flew to Sacramento, where Russ's sister Lisa lives. We spent time with her and her famiy, his mom, and his grandma and grandpa. We had a fun time and the kids had a blast..

The girls with Joyann checking out the light snow outside...

Chad with John and Lisa (eating some clam stew --yuck! He loved it!

Was lucky enough to catch Chad with his elf hat on!!

Joyann baked cookies with the girls. Madison was so excited to wear the cool apron.

Taylor, the mini Martha Stewart

From our family to yours ---- We wish you all a very Merry Christmas! We are thankful for the love of family and friends, and are so lucky to have so many wonderful people in our lives..

Early Christmas...

2008-12-22T21:15:00.005-07:00

Since we were scheduled to fly to Sacramento for Christmas this year, we had our Christmas at home a few days early. I was really sad Rocky couldn't fly home this year. This was the first year I've not spent Christmas with him. :( We missed him so much. The kids were excited that Santa came a bit early to our house this year, and that they would be having two Christmas celebrations! I was able to snap just a few 'sleepy eyed' shots of them with their favorite gifts.

Chad with his wireless headset for his computer games and ipod. He was a happy camper as long as he got those and I-Pod and Best Buy gift cards.

Taylor with her new I-pod and the camera she's been wanting

Maddie with her Biscuit (a lifesized mechanical puppy that obeys commands) and a DS game

Madison already had this keyboard, but I had to snap this shot of her because I thought it was adorable. I walked in the room to see that she had changed into an old Halloween costume, a leopard tight fitted leotard, with her leopard print mittens, and some earphones on, playing the keyboard. She made us laugh so hard when we saw this sight.

Interesting huh?

2008-12-18T22:31:00.002-07:00

MyHeritage: Family tree - Genealogy - Celebrity - Collage - Morph

Rocky...

2008-12-18T22:13:00.002-07:00

MyHeritage: Look-alike Meter - Free genealogy - Family reunion

Wilkes Look-alike Meter

2008-12-18T22:03:00.001-07:00

MyHeritage: Family tree - Genealogy - Celebrity - Collage - Morph

Wilkes Look-alike Meter

2008-12-18T21:54:00.001-07:00

MyHeritage: Look-alike Meter - Family photos - Free family tree charts

Visiting Santa...

2008-12-18T14:36:00.008-07:00

Last Wednesday, I took the girls to my RE/MAX charity event that we've held the past few years at our office. They were so excited to see Santa because they know that we get the 'real' Santa each year at this event. The girls know we're extremely lucky to be able to book him for our party, because he's so busy, and usually Santa's helpers are the ones in the malls, due to Santa's hectic schedule. So they love it...

I wasn't successful pursuading Chad to come with us this year. NO chance of him sitting on Santa's lap. But I do have a picture of something almost as good as getting my son to sit on Santa's lap -----------

Butch & Gary (my bosses --- the owners of RE/MAX Associates) sitting on Santa's lap. It's a good blackmail picture, don't ya think?

Gingerbread house...

2008-12-14T18:22:00.019-07:00

Today, the girls were still not feeling well, so we stayed inside again all day, and the girls stayed in their PJ's all day. They were a little bored of being inside for two days, so we decided to make a gingerbread house. This is kinda how it went....

The cute girls before they started their project...

Have to eat a bit of the candy before starting the project..

Working hard...

Have to eat a bit more of the candy...

Working hard again...

Taking a break to eat some more...

All 3 with candy in their mouths...

The finished project...

Let it snow...

2008-12-13T21:44:00.004-07:00

This is what we woke up to today. Finally, it's winter. Now, I'm not saying I love the winters here... But the kids definitely want a White Christmas, so I guess it's ok. Me, being from sunny Arizona, would much rather see the sun and feel the warmth on my skin. Madison and Taylor were sick today, so it was a 'PJ day, staying indoors watching movies all day' anyways, so in that case we loved it. It snowed all day long.

Ugly Christmas sweaters....

2008-12-13T09:56:00.005-07:00

Wednesday all of us at the office wore UGLY Christmas sweaters to work. We had alot of snowflakes, penguins, snowmen, eagles, Christmas trees, and stockings on our sweaters. Beautiful huh? I know you want one.. haha!

Flashback Friday...

2008-12-12T20:14:00.004-07:00

My Angel Baby!!!

I am flashing back to July of 2002. This is my beautiful daughter, Taylor, and she was just 3 years old. I have to brag a bit about Taylor today. For no reason other than I love her so much... She is one of the sweetest, most caring, giving, sensitive, loving, cutest, snuggliest, funniest, smartest, most beautiful, witty, bossy, responsible 9 year olds I know.

I love her to pieces, and I am so priviledged to be her mom.

Tay Tay, I love you more than you'll ever know!

PMI Christmas Party...

2008-12-07T13:12:00.006-07:00

Last night was the annual PMI Christmas Party at the Grand America. It was also the Alta dance. Since we normally use Chad to babysit when we have functions like this, and he was going to the dance and activities all day, we had to use a babysitter. We've only had to use babysitters a few times in the girls' lives, since we've always had Rocky or Chad to babysit, but this was a very long week trying to find one. I literally called about 15 girls, before Nikki happened to find one for me at the last minute. Thank you Nikki! You were a lifesaver...

Gina Mitchell, Stephanie Dalby, Jenn Games, me and Nikki

Jenn Games, me & Nikki

The answer...

2008-12-02T22:02:00.007-07:00

A few nights ago Chad asked a girl to the Alta dance that's this Saturday night. Our doorbell rang this evening, and this is what we found out front all over Chad's car...

Thanksgiving....

2008-11-30T23:11:00.006-07:00

I have many things I am thankful for in my life, but most importantly I am thankful for family and friends and any opportunity I have to spend time with them. This Thanksgiving we had the opportunity to spend time with my sister and her family. This is the first year in a while that they haven't had to travel for my nephew's football games out of town, so they invited us to their vacation home in Victor, Idaho. It was Lori, Len, and their 3 kids... Len's brother, Rich, and Nikkie and their 3 kids... Us, and 3 of our kids... and Len & Rich's mom, Judy. So we had 16 of us in this house. We had a blast and all the kids did really well together. It was nice & relaxing just to get away and enjoy the country life and good company.
Besides the fact that a few kids got sick (it never fails in our family, someone is always sick over the Thanksgiving weekend), we all had a blast. Us adults went out on the last night to a restaurant we found in town called "Cafe Luna". If anyone happens to ever be in Victor, Idaho, I highly recommend that place, it is some of the best food you'll ever eat.
Here are a few pictures I took. We were actually having so much fun, we forgot to pull our cameras out alot. And you'll notice there aren't any pictures of any of the 5 boys that were there. Yea, well that's because they were either on the 4 wheelers and no where to be found, or in the basement playing Guitar Hero, or WII, or X-Box for hours on end.

The house...

The range...

Len, the turkey chef....

The fantastic company....

Madison the cowgirl rockstar

The Drama Queens

The fun slumber parties..

Mr. Dude finally has a name....

2008-11-21T21:47:00.000-07:00

I was informed today by Maddie that Mr. Dude has a name.... His name is Jake. Let me explain......

When I get off work every day at 5:00, I go pick up Maddie at her school at about 5:30. We drive towards home, and for as long as we both can remember, we pass this man walking down 146th towards Redwood Rd. around 5:45 every day. He must take a shuttle or something to work every day, and must be walking home from the dropoff point. He's always walking down the street, and we see him in the exact same spot each day, walking and texting on his cell phone. We always wave to him, and he sees us wave, whenver he is not looking down at his cell phone. This is something we look forward to each day on our way home. A few days out of the year, we haven't seen him, and Madison wonders 'is he sick today? I hope he has a family that's taking care of him while he's sick.'
She looks forward to seeing him every day to know he's ok. And since we didn't ever know his name, we named him "Mr. Dude"
After calling him Mr. Dude for quite a few months, I was informed today by Madison that he has a name. She said to me after we passed him, "Mom, you know Mr. Dude really has a name." I said, "Oh, really? And what is his name?" She thought really hard, and said, "Well, his name is Jake". Oh, so that answers that... We now know.
Little does Jake know, he has people who look for him each day to make sure he's ok. We worry about him when we don't see him. We hope he has a family who loves him. We hope he has a warm house to live in and food to eat. And we hope he has kids that hug him each day. Jake --- we love you.

Pictures from Russ' 40th Birthday Party...

2008-11-17T21:45:00.008-07:00

The party I missed...

Part 2 ---- of the birthday surprise....

2008-11-15T20:54:00.006-07:00

Today was a day that was supposed to be filled with surprises for Russ. I had been planning for weeks his big 40th birthday bash... So along with the surprise of his family flying in yesterday, which that in itself would have been the best surprise that he could have dreamed of.. I had been planning a surprise birthday party for him. With the help of my sister (Thank you Lori!) we planned for the party to be at her house, otherwise I don't think I could have kept it a surprise very well. I had sent out the invitations, planning on about 40 people to be there. This included some of his closest friends from work, their spouses, and his family from out of town, and on a whim, I planned for 3 of his friends he worked with at America West when we lived in Arizona, to fly in. I had arranged with a local restaurant to cater it, my awesome friend & neighbor Turia, http://www.sugarkissescakes.com/ , made two cakes (one for Russ, and it just so happened that today is Rich's birthday too, so one for Rich), and everything was going to be perfect. Boy would he be surprised. I really think that last night when his family showed up at our house, he thought if I had been planning anything, that THAT was the surprise. Little did he know... haha! I love surprises! The only thing that he knew was our plan was that him and I, Lori & Len, and Nikki & Rich were all going to sushi for dinner and meeting at Lori's at 8:00 p.m. tonight. Now that he knew his family was here, he knew we were adding 3 more people to our dinner plans, but still the same dinner plans....

WELL ---- that was supposed to be the plan. But last night I tossed and turned all night with the worst stomach pains and didn't get one ounce of sleep. I woke to the sharpest pains ever, and just wanted to stay in bed all day, but I knew I had a big day in front of me. I had told him, and his sisters and mom last night, that I had a few errands to run this morning, and wouldn't be going to breakfast with them. I had a few last minute things at Costco to get and run them over to Lori's house. As I was standing in line at Costco to check out about 11:00, I was feeling worse, but forced myself to finish up and get the stuff over to my sisters house. Then I ran into a store to see if I could find something new to wear for tonight. Around 1:00, I didn't think I was going to make it anymore, I called my sister in tears saying I didn't know if I'd be able to go tonight. She thought maybe I had gotten food poisoning and maybe I should go home and drink water, and fall asleep for a bit. Somehow I deep down knew, it was more than that. I drove myself to urgent care and after they took blood and urine, said my white blood count was really high, and from where I was having the pains, he was 90% sure it was my appendix. But for me to head straight over to the hospital and they would do a CT scan to determine for sure. I bawled... No one understood, I didn't have time to do this today. Couldn't it wait until tomorrow? I called Russ, and met him at the house, and he drove me to the hospital and they of course said yes, it was my appendix and I needed to go into surgery now. Even my poor husband didn't understand my tears, that I couldn't do this TONIGHT of all nights. He said he'd stay with me, not to worry, everything would be ok. And here I was saying to him, 'NO --- you need to still go to dinner with everyone tonight!' Of course, he wasn't going to leave my side..... Ughhhh! I said to him before I went into surgery around 5:00 to please just stick with the plans, please go to dinner. He didn't understand that a house full of people were going to be at my sisters house at 7:30 for HIM... The surgeon said to him, 'Listen --- just tell her to make her happy, that you're going, then when she's out for her surgery, you can stay here' I felt like saying --- you don't understand.. But I didn't want to give it up to Russ. So when they wheeled me back to surgery, I said to the surgeon and the nurses, "Listen, this is very important you are on my side.. I have a big surprise party planned for him, tons of people going to be there at 7:30, I have it catered, etc. etc... please --- help me-- tell him to go to dinner as planned" Then they understood. So when I came out of surgery an hour later (at like 6:00 and so close to game time) --- the doctor went in to talk to him in the waiting room and said, "She's doing good, but listen, she's going to be out of it for like 4 hours, sleeping and groggy, you should go to dinner with your family, she'll be fine, then you can come back" Yes! Thank you Doctor Cavin! That was the only important thing to me, this day was about Russ. So with all my surprises that were unplanned, I wanted his night to go on 'as planned'.

I looked at my clock as I sat in my hospital bed, at 7:30, thinking 'ok, all the guests are arriving', then at 8:00, thinking 'ok, Russ should be walking in her door right now', then at 8:15, thinking 'ok, he's been surprised by now, and now I know my phone's going to ring any second', then at 8:16 --- sure enough, my phone rang, he was so surprised, and at that moment -- KNEW what my determination was for in getting him there.

I will never forget this day ---- November 15th, 2008 ---- I don't know why God planned for me to sit in a hospital bed after having my appendix removed, but working so hard to make sure the party still went on ---- but I'm thankful for my health and my family.

PS --- Obviously since I wasn't at the party, I have no pictures to post from my camera, but Lori took tons, and Sarah took some, so I will get those pictures from them, and post them in a few days. And no, I wasn't sitting up in my hospital bed entering this post (haha! I'm sure a few of you were wondering since it's dated 11/15) --- I posted it a week later, but back dated it to 11/15 ---- :)

Part 1 -- of the birthday surprise...

2008-11-14T19:02:00.010-07:00

For weeks now I've been planning Russ's big 40th birthday surprise. I've been very successful in keeping the plans from him. Originally when we talked about his 40th birthday, he said he only wanted a party if his family could come. At that time, since we're all going to be together at Christmas with his family, they couldn't do a second trip also during November so close to the other trip. So I told him they wouldn't be able to come, and then he decided he just wanted new Ping G-10 golf clubs.
So that was going to be it. After thinking about the whole thing for a while, me, along with my sister, Lori, and friend, Nikki, decided it would still be fun to have a little surprise party for him on Saturday night anyways. So with lots of work, that was our plan. Also, some planning with his mom and sisters, we decided they would still fly in and surprise him. His mom, Barb, and sister, Karen, both flew in today from Minnesota. And his other sister, Lisa, flew in from Sacramento. They flew in around 3:00 in the afternoon, and since his surprise party wasn't until Saturday night, and they flew in today, we wanted them to surprise him a day early, and he would think that was his surprise. So our plan was when Russ got home from work, they would just come over to the house and knock on the door. So around 6:00, they knocked at the door and Russ answered it and was so surprised to see his family standing there. We grilled steaks and had an awesome night.... He wasn't expecting them at all to show up, so I was very excited we pulled this first part off without a hitch... Stay tuned for Part 2....

Happy Birthday Russ...

2008-11-13T18:03:00.002-07:00

Today is Russ's 40th birthday (yes, he did marry a older woman!) I want to tell my husband how much I love him and appreciate the hard work he puts into our family on a daily basis. I KNOW he'll have the best birthday ever this year.

I wanted to share just a few of the many things I love about him.....

* I love the father that he is to our children and the great example he's been to his step-children.

* I love the way he can make me laugh even when I'm being stubborn and don't want to laugh.

* I love the work ethic that he's had his whole life, starting from childhood, and that's carried into his adulthood. The hard work he puts into supporting our family, and the dedication and 'nothing but the best' attitude he has in regards to his work.

* I love the way he has dreams and goals, and the way they mold in with my dreams and goals.

* I love the way he always thinks of me, and asks me what I think before he makes even the smallest decision.

* I love the way he allows me to be me, and encourages me to spend time with my friends, and never complains.

* I love the sensitive side of him.

* I love the amazing person he is with everyone around him. His unconditional caring attitude he has with his friends and family.

Russ --- you are an amazing person. Thank you for being the person you are, I love you from the depths of my heart!!

The countdown....

2008-11-08T20:53:00.002-07:00

All I have to say is ---- if you are not as excited as I am for the release of this movie, well then, I may have to re-evaluate our friendship... haha! Just kidding. But I really am excited and I understand it's hard for anyone to completely understand if you haven't read the books. So for me and my die hard vampire friends, we will be there on opening night...

Happy Halloween!!

2008-11-01T21:32:00.002-06:00

Make a Smilebox slideshow

Happy Birthday Alexa!

2008-10-31T23:58:00.000-06:00

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ALEXA!! Today is my cute niece, Alexa's birthday. She turned 9. It's always been so much fun to celebrate her birthday on Halloween. This year she was dressed as Cleopatra, and she was a very beautiful one I might add. Lexi, we love you and think you are a very special girl...

Flashback Friday...

2008-10-31T18:14:00.005-06:00

Flashback to Halloween 1988. These pictures were from Russ' sophmore year at ASU. This is my husband's wild college gang he hung out with. Two of the pictures are of Russ and his best friend, Chad Tidd, who he grew up with in Minnesota, and both came to ASU for college. By looking at these pictures, you probably would guess these guys wouldn't succeed in business and in life as much as they all have. Chad now owns an engineering company in Boulder, Colorado. His other good friend and roommate, Casey Smith (the pirate on far right), is the head trainer for the Dallas Mavericks. The stories that I've heard from their college days and halloween parties through the years, make me wonder how they are all still here, and made it through those crazy college years alive ...

Happy Birthday Melissa...

2008-10-29T15:00:00.003-06:00

Today is my sister Melissa's birthday. She lives in Arizona, and will be moving to Virginia soon to be closer to my other sister, Heather. Melissa and I did everything together before we moved to Utah 4 years ago. I really miss the every day interraction we had with each other, and our long talks. I love you Melissa, and hope you have the best birthday ever!!!

Happy Birthday Chad... Flashback Friday...

2008-10-24T22:52:00.015-06:00

HAPPY BIRTHDAY CHAD!!!!! I can't believe my little Chadders is 18 years old today. It seems like just yesterday that he was born. I love Chad very much and he amazes me all the time with what a kind, caring, good young man he has grown into. Chad wanted to go out for Italian food tonight, so we all did that, and then he took all of his birthday money, and we went to Best Buy and he purchased his I-Pod he's been wanting so badly. He decided he wanted his birthday party with his friends in a few weeks, and it will be a sleepover. Stay tuned for the slumber party he's having in a few weeks with a bunch of his buddies. We'll see how that goes with a bunch of 17-18 year old boys sleeping over....

For flashback friday I'm flashing back to Chad's younger, more innocent years....

4 months old

7 months old

19 months old

4-1/2 years old

You are a very special person Chad ----- we love you and cherish each moment you've given us!

I was tagged...

2008-10-18T18:29:00.007-06:00

Ok, I was tagged again, this time by my friend, Keely. I'm supposed to go to my 4th picture in my 4th folder, and post that. I was nervous, wondering which picture would be the lucky winner. I was very pleasantly surprised to find this picture to be the winner....

This picture was taken right before we moved from Arizona to Utah, in September of 2004. Taylor is 5, and this is her BFF Hannah, who was 4 at the time. My friend, Bree, Hannah's mom, babysat Taylor and Madison. This picture was taken right before a dance class they had. They are so cute, and they've grown up so much since then. We don't get to see Hannah as much as we'd like, but we can't wait for the next time we go to Arizona for a visit so we can spend some time with her. We love you Hannah!

OK --- so I tag Bree, Turia, Angie, Noriane, and my new blogging friend, Melinda....

Flashback Friday...

2008-10-17T21:58:00.006-06:00

I've had these refrigerator magnets of Chad on my fridge since I got them years ago. He was about 5 years old. Isn't he adorable? Look at that cute smile.... Too bad they don't smile more when they are teenagers.. (haha!) I can't believe this was 12-13 years ago... Wow am I getting old!

Witches Brew...

2008-10-16T21:30:00.001-06:00

This is what I did Wednesday night...... Fun, huh?

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Happy Birthday Lori...

2008-10-16T12:17:00.003-06:00

Today is my sister, Lori's, birthday. Her and her family are the only family I have here in Utah, and I'm so thankful that we've grown so much closer over the last 4 years since I've lived here. She was the only one I knew when we first moved here, and she took me in and introduced me into her circle of friends and made it much easier on me to adjust, after living in Arizona my whole life. She is a very kind and giving person and I love her for the person she is. I love you Lori! Happy Birthday!

The Tooth Fairy...

2008-10-13T12:07:00.003-06:00

Madison lost her 3rd tooth this weekend. We were in Home Depot when she lost it. She's such a little trooper. Later at night, she neatly placed her tooth in a little ziplock bag so the tooth fairy wouldn't have a hard time finding it, and placed it under her pillow. She was so excited. Kids are so cute, and I love how the littlest things make them happy. My baby is growing up...

I have been tagged...

2008-10-08T22:20:00.004-06:00

I've been tagged by two people --- my cute friend Bree from Arizona and my cute friend Noriane who is also my neighbor. Bree tagged me to give 25 facts about myself that people who know me may not know, and Noriane tagged me to give 5 facts. So to fullfill my responsibility to both, I guess I better give 25 (even though I'm not sure I can think of 25 interested facts about myself --- I'm really not that interesting-- ha ha!) Ok, so here we go:

1) I was born and raised in Tempe, Arizona
2) I have 3 sisters, no brothers -I always wanted a brother, but never had one ):
3) I played the violin in elementary school for a few years (didn't say I was good, but I did play)
4) I played the piano from 1st grade through high school, and then moved out of my house where the piano was, so I'm a bit rusty now, but still like to play.
5) I was on the pom line in Jr. High (Yea Crusaders! Go!)
6) My first car was a 69 black volkswagen bug with red vinyl seats and no air (being in Arizona, in 120 degree weather, it wasn't fun in the summer, we had to sit on towels so our butts didn't burn)
7) I met Russ on New Years Eve of 1994 (and if you ask Russ the story, you'll get a completely different story about our first meeting than if you ask me, as those of you who got the story the other night found out!! haha! If you want the REAL story, just come straight to me)
8) My girlfriends and I ditched one day in high school and drove to Rocky Point, Mexico for 24 hours. One of my friends parents were out of town and I was supposed to be staying at her house. We came home with an awesome tan, but got called up to the principals office the next day at school because everyone knew we went. I'll never forget the principal handing the phone to me, after calling my dad and saying, "Mr. Beckstead, your daughter is in my office, and she'd like to tell you something" (I swear, I didn't get in that much trouble growing up, but this was one of the times!)
9) I have never been in a car accident that was my fault, and I've been in three (oh, except when I rear ended someone in the icy snow last year, I forgot --- but I swear, that's the only time it was my fault)
10) I always wanted to be a school teacher when I was a kid (doesn't every kid?) But my second choice was a private investigator.
11) Mayonaise, not miracle whip
12) All 4 of my kids have always been great sleepers - they slept through the night from 2 months on ---- I love my kids, but I also love my sleep, so I didn't get up with every whimper or cry when they were babies. (is that mean?)
13) I HATE camping! (sorry, Russ) I'm much more of a 5 star resort type of a girl. If there's not a resort, showers, shopping and fun around, I'll tolerate it, but don't love it.
14) I don't worry about alot of things each day. My attitude is -- if you can't do something about it, why worry about it. If you are going to complain or whine about it then do something to change it.
15) I cry in most movies that are sad or even remotely touching. Ask my husband, he laughs at me. Even in kid movies, my whole family usually looks over at me to see if I have tears in my eyes.
16) I have a hard time asking for help or favors from others (yea, I know I know --- except my husband or kids). I would rather do it myself, or figure it out myself, than ask for help.
17) I love roller coasters
18) I'm very scatterbrained, but very organized at the same time. I live with lists, and write everything down, or else I will forget with my crazy schedule.
19) I don't buy many things for myself. I love buying things for other people.
20) The first time I ever had to buy a airline ticket was when my sisters, Mom & I went to New York last year. Coming from a family that has worked for the airlines, I've flown for free since I was a senior in high school. I have to say, I'd rather pay now, than fly standby.
21) My paternal grandmother was from South Africa. And her great, great grandfather (I'm not sure how many greats, but a few) was the president of South Africa. So yes, I am royalty! (ha ha!)
22) I am a reality show junkie --- I love Survivor, American Idol, Amazing Race, Bigest loser, etc. It's really the only TV I watch. (sad I know, I can't tell you what's going on in the world, but I sure as heck can tell you who was voted off Amazing Race... haha!)
23) Anything boys can do girls can do better!
24) I am very loyal to my friendships... I love my friends.
25) My husband would say I'm the best wife and mother (right honey?)

There you go. That's me. If you don't like it then you don't have to read it. J/K --- I love all you guys! So I tag Holly, Angie, Keely, Wendy (which means you actually have to make a post!), and Jess..

Flashback Friday...

2008-10-03T22:11:00.008-06:00

I was looking through some pictures today and ran across these pictures from one of the most memorable days in my life. The day Russ proposed to me. It was August of 1997. We had flown to Minnesota to visit his family ---- One afternoon we were all sitting out on his mom and step-dad's deck visiting, the whole family - about 10 of us. Russ walked out from the house with a dozen roses. All red except one yellow right in the middle. Like the gentleman he is, he got down on one knee, and talked about what the roses mean, that red stands for love, and yellow stands for friendship. Then he pulled out the box with the ring in it, and proposed to me. Oh, I almost forgot, when he took the ring out of the box, it slipped out of his hands, I was looking at his eyes, and noticed the look that went from excitement to fear, then looked down to see the ring rolling, and luckily it stopped right before it went through the gap between the slats of the deck. It was pretty funny. This was an incredible day, and he completely surprised me with this moment, I wasn't expecting it to happen on this trip. Moments like this I'll cherish forever.
Thank you honey! I love you...

Taylor's school project....

2008-09-30T20:00:00.004-06:00

Taylor had a school project that she turned in yesterday. She's been studying all about Utah Indians in her class, and it amazes me everything she now knows about the history of these great people. She chose to do her project on the 'Tepee'. Here is a picture of her final art (however, I couldn't persuade her to get in the picture, but oh well, this will have to do..) I'm very proud of her.

Flashback Friday...

2008-09-26T19:10:00.009-06:00

All three of my boys are the loves of my life. I think they are incredible individuals and I cherish all the moments we've shared in the past and continue to have. I found these pictures that were taken in 1996-1998. The pictures taken in the suspenders were at our wedding when Russ & I were married on valentines day in 1998. Aren't they adorable?

Happy Birthday Mitchell...

2008-09-24T21:54:00.005-06:00

This cute boy is my nephew Mitchell. Actually I should say 'cute teenager', he had his birthday today, and turned 13! Wow, I can't believe he's 13 already. I remember when he was just a few months old, and his Mom and Dad (my sister Lori and her husband Len) went on a trip, and we helped watch him for a few days. Wow Mitchie ---- time has sure gone by fast. We love you and hope you know what a special person you are to us. I know this is a hard birthday with your Grandpa Dick passing away only just a few days ago, but just know he is always there with you, close to your heart, and I'm sure he's very proud of you. WE LOVE YOU MITCH...

Crazy but loving sisters...

2008-09-20T19:24:00.012-06:00

More than anything in the world, I LOVE when my girls are getting along and not bickering. So I cherish the moments of harmony they have. I had to take a few pictures so I could remind them during their times of competitive arguing how much of a better option this is. Between Madison's feisty personality, and Taylor's 'I'm the boss' attitude, they sometimes need a little reminding. In fact, we purchased their halloween costumes today, and Taylor chose a 'devil' and Madison chose a 'princess' (fitting huh?)

I just love them so much...

Flashback Friday...

2008-09-19T19:04:00.003-06:00

Flashback to 1992...... This picture is of Russ when he was about 24, and his older sister, Lisa, and his dog Brandy. Cute huh? They are standing in front of the house he lived in with about 4 other guys. So you can imagine what the inside of this house looked like. This house was totally disgusting --- never clean, you could tell a bunch of college guys lived in this house. When I met Russ a few years later, he didn't live here anymore, but we went by to visit his friends, and it looked like it hadn't been cleaned in about 5 years. Anyways ---- I can not believe that 16 years have passed since this picture.

Happy Birthday Barb...

2008-09-18T22:46:00.004-06:00

Today is my amazing, wonderful, marvelous mother-in-law's birthday! She's such a strong woman, and I admire her courage and strength that she's had in enduring everything she's gone through the past year. I want to tell you Barb, how honored I feel to be part of your family. Happy Birthday ---- we love you tons!

Flashback Friday...

2008-09-12T20:43:00.005-06:00

Originally when I started my blog, I had this great idea to post a blog on Fridays called "Flashback Friday" to add something a bit interesting. I think I did it twice, then I started slacking on my great idea. I decided to start it up again. So I am flashing back today to 1995.

Russ and I had been dating about 8 months, and one weekend we took a trip to the Biospere with a few friends. This place is just north of Tucson, and it was a research center in an enclosed environment where they studied the interraction of plants, animals and humans. 8 men and woman locked themselves inside for 2 years without relying on anything from the outside. I'm not sure if they lasted for the whole two years, or what the outcome of the study was, but apparently it was interesting enough to the public that they conducted tours, which as you can see from the pictures below, we must have been some of those that thought it sounded like fun to see. Also, as you can see from the pictures, well, lets just say, I have no clue what we were thinking when we dressed that day, apparently not fashion!

Happy Birthday Eryka....

2008-09-10T21:11:00.001-06:00

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY NIECE ERYKA!!!! Today Eryka turned 6 and we want her to know that we love her and miss her tons! Eryka you are a very special girl and you deserve the best birthday ever! Taylor and Madison are really pushing for Virginia to be our next vacation, so we hope to see you sooner than the usual summer visit. We love you Eryka.

Algebra & Geometry.....

2008-09-07T20:50:00.003-06:00

(1 + x)(3 + 2x)
3 + 5x + 2x2

HELP!!!! I'm sorry, but the day I got out of high school and then completed a required college course in math, I thought to myself, "I am so glad that's over ----- I never want to do another bit of algebra or geometry again in my life" Then Rocky took algebra & geometry in high school and never really needed my help with it, and I took a deep breath. Now Chad is taking these classes in high school, and I've skated by without having to help him much his sophmore year, but now, his junior year, he's come to me for help each night when he has homework. He's in geometry, however, they're doing a review of algebra as well. And now I'm faced with this demon that I thought would go away.
So now Chad and I are learning together, and helping each other. I really thought I was done with high school (haha!) I guess it's never over.

Color me mine...

2008-08-31T21:11:00.015-06:00

One of the things Madison wanted to do for her birthday was paint a piggy bank at "Color Me Mine". So last week we took Maddie and Taylor over there. Of all the things they could pick out to paint, they both wanted the pigs, and they both wanted their pigs to be polka dot. So here is the "Before" picture of their pigs....

Here is their "work in progress"

Here is Russ and his attempt with helping Madison

Here is Chad tagging along with us just being patient because afterwards we were going school shopping for him. Of course you can see, he's still a bit swollen from his wisdom teeth being removed, this is 'day 4' for him, and he's still not completely happy yet...

Here are the pigs after the painting, but before the glazing...

Here are the cute finished products and the proud artists.

Madison's first day of kindergarten...

2008-08-26T19:26:00.005-06:00

Today was Madison's first day of kindergarten. I had such mixed emotions... First of all, the obvious, she's my baby. I will never again experience this. It means she's growing up, and as I stated in a previous post, I really am trying to do everything I can to freeze time for my kids, but for some reason, it's not working. Even though she's been used to going to preschool and us leaving her, for some reason today she didn't want me to leave her there. She was so excited, but once we got there, she clung to me and didn't want me to leave her. Once I left, she did really well, and can't stop talking about her class now, plus she got to bring cookies to her class because her birthday was yesterday. Here's a few pictures of her, and one of her and her best friend, Emma.

Happy Birthday to my baby girl...

2008-08-25T21:24:00.008-06:00

Today is my baby's birthday! She is now 6 years old... I can't believe how fast she's growing up. We had her birthday party on Saturday at 'Bouncin' Off The Walls' and she had a blast. I just love her so much, she's such a sweetheart. I love you Madison Rylee...

Happy Birthday Lauryn....

2008-08-23T10:10:00.007-06:00

Happy Birthday to my cute neice, Lauryn! She is turning 7 today and I can't believe how quickly she is growing up! My sister and her family live in Virginia, so we only get to see them once a year -- I wish it was alot more! Lauryn --- we love you and hope you have the happiest birthday ever! We can't wait to see you next year...

I also wanted to say Happy Birthday to my brother-in-law, Clemente. His birthday was on July 27th. And we didn't forget him, we sent him a gift and called him, but I feel bad that I failed to mention his birthday in my blog..
Clemente, I want you to know we love you so much, and we had a blast with you when you guys were here visiting in June. You kept us in constant laughter and tears that night on Lori & Len's back deck. I'll never forget how funny that night was! XOXO

School carnival...

2008-08-22T21:57:00.010-06:00

The first week at Taylor and Maddie's school, they always put on a carnival. So tonight, we took them there for a few hours, and of course the kids always have fun on the rides, and playing tons of games where they win cheap prizes (I always end up sneaking a few in the garbage each day to clean them up --- shhhhh!)

Taylor & Maddie with Abby & Tiani

A carnival wouldn't be a carnival without cotton candy. But of course, my daughter, Taylor, chooses a bottle of water over cotton candy. Maddie jumps at the chance for sugar any time she can get it.

No pain, no gain...

2008-08-22T21:49:00.002-06:00

Two days after having his wisdom teeth removed, now Chad is really not feeling good. As you can see in this picture, he doesn't look happy one bit. He's swollen up like a chipmunk, and putting ice packs on his face constantly, rinsing his mouth with warm salt water, and has been on pain pills and antibiotics for two days. He said this wasn't what he signed up for. He's hoping the swelling goes down before his first day of school on Monday. We'll see when we take his picture before school on Monday... You're a trooper Chad!

Poor Chad.....

2008-08-20T21:02:00.007-06:00

Chad must be very wise.....
Right? Isn't that what it means when your wisdom teeth come in? His wisdom teeth appeared at the ripe old age of 17. they say wisdom teeth usually appear between the age of 18-20. He got his braces on about 6 months ago, and the orthodontist wanted a few teeth to move before he had us go have them removed. So we had an appointment made for him to have them removed today, and since he didn't want to be awake for the lovely procedure, we made the appointment with an oral surgeon, because apparently, they are the only ones that can put patients to 'sleep' for the procedure. So here is the picture before and after, so you can see Chad's half smile that shows a bit of worry in his face before ---- and after, well, I think he's just plain annoyed... You did a great job Chad! I love you!

BEFORE

AFTER

Summer is over....

2008-08-18T23:08:00.007-06:00

Today was the first day of school for the girls. Actually, just for Taylor. She is in 4th grade, and Madison is starting Kindergarten, but the Kindergarteners are doing their assessment testing this week, so they actually don't start until next week. These kids are growing up so fast. I'm sad about that, but excited for them because they are so excited...

Every year we get pictures of the kids and their friends on the first day of school. Today, being Taylor's first day, I took a picture of her with her friends. This first one is a picture of the 4 musketeers. From L-R there is Taylor, Grace, Maya, and Tiani. They have all been the best of friends since first grade.

And this one is of Taylor and her other good friend, Ashlyn, who lives across the street.

My Arizona visit with Rocky....

2008-08-17T22:43:00.001-06:00

I made a trip to Arizona for the weekend to visit my son, Rocky. As I'm sure many parents before me have come to this conclusion, this is what I realized.... We spend so much time raising our kids when they are young, and being 'parents' and teaching them what they should do and what they shouldn't do, that we are more 'parents' than 'friends' to our children when they are younger, and that's how it should be. Although Rocky & I have always been really close, when they are adults, you get to form a completely different relationship with your kids. You hope and pray that what you've taught them their whole life they will grasp onto. And they don't always make the right decisions along the way. But knowing what they've been taught, you pray that they always remember what they were taught and grow up to be productive, kind, good individuals in this big, crazy world. Since Rocky moved back to Arizona right after high school, this was a great opportunity for me to really spend time with him and enjoy him. Instead of parenting, I enjoyed him and we had a lot of fun together, great heart to heart talks, and as I've known all along, Rocky is a fabulous, very intelligent and incredible indivdual! I love you Rocky, and want the best for you, and you're in my thoughts and prayers every minute of every day.....

I also got to spend some time with Rocky's girlfriend, Chelsea. I found that she's the cutest, sweetest girl ever, and very good to my son. I appreciate her being there for Rocky and being such a good example to him. Thank you Chelsea!

Todd & Kelli.....

2008-08-17T22:00:00.000-06:00

While I was in Arizona, Rocky and I had a chance to visit our dear friends, Todd & Kelli. They've been friends of ours for many years, they've been in my life since Rocky has been a few years old (they've been in Rocky's dad's life since they were kids themselves). It was really good to see them and visit with them. I really admire both of them, and their wisdom and loving hearts. Thank you both so much, I hope you both know how much I deeply appreciate and love you!